Killing Me Softly With His Song

My boss gave me an article that reminded her of my relationship (I told her about how I told my boy he should plan a special day for us the day before my birthday and he said, I already was. . . . I consistently give him bossy pronouncements which he's already taking care of quietly). She said the spelling is wrong, but I think you'll recognize it. I had no idea what she meant, but shockingly it all made sense once I started reading: http://www.boston.com/news/globe/magazine/articles/2007/03/18/coupling/